Oct 302013
The Asshole Test

I posted a challenge on twitter: pick my blog topic. Mr. Will suggested that I write the following: I originally thought this post would take the direction of a partner not being able to perfom sexually or have a dampened sexual interest if the other partner is experiencing very low self-esteem. It seemed like the automatic answer… but it was not one I could related to. Despite being in a relationship where I had terrible […]

Oct 262013
e-lust #51

Photo courtesy of Property of Potter Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #52? Start with the newly updated rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This […]

Oct 242013

Have you heard the saying that “If you don’t argue, then your relationship is in trouble”? I don’t remember where I heard this, but I assumed it to be true. Humans are opinionated by nature; if two or more can agree on everything, then one of them isn’t being honest. With my ex, I remember thinking about this saying a lot. We never argued. Sure, we had disagreements like, “It’s your turn to do the […]

Oct 222013
Dr. Romance gives poor advice on bisexuality

Today at work I saw @blogher post a link to an article with the title “My Husband is Curious About Sex With Men.” As a bisexual woman in a committed relationship with a bisexual man, this drew my interest. Being bisexual is often like being in a forgotten class. We get lost among the heterosexual population because a lot of us are in opposite gender relationships. If we’re in same sex relationships, its assumed we’re […]

Oct 222013
TMI Tuesday: Potpourri of questions

1. You’ve been waiting forever for your significant other to propose marriage, when they finally do it is in the form of a bribe: “Lose 10-15 lbs. (approx. 1 stone U.K.; approx. 6 kilos) and I will marry you…the wedding can be anyway, and anywhere of your choosing…just lose some weight.” Would you accept this proposal?(Alternatively for the traditionalists): Men if your significant other was a little ‘heavier’ than you’d like him/her to be, would […]

Oct 192013
Celebrate Fisting Day

FISTING. I didn’t know what this word was two and a half years ago. I stumbled it across it when I started looking following Jiz Lee on twitter. (I found Jiz Lee through Violet Blue, who was key in my journey into sex positivity — a story for another day.)  Through Jiz Lee I found Courtney Trouble and her fantastic brands of queer porn. And then there was fisting. Another piece of my kink fell […]

Oct 182013

The past couple weeks, no month, ugh, two months have been so challenging for me at work. It’s taken a toll on our relationship and my own mental status. He’s had to deal with my long hours at work and at home, less and less time together, me being scatterbrained, my emotional neediness, my depression, my body reacting to all the stress with a sensitive stomach and poor sleep. And while he’s tried to encourage […]

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