1. Tell us something with which you strongly agree, or greatly like.
Orgasms should be equal opportunity. This means each partner has the opportunity to orgasm. I’m not saying the numbers need to be exactly equal… as a multi-orgasmic woman, the numbers will always be tipped in my favor. What I mean is, if we have sex, both of us should orgasm if we want to. That doesn’t mean that I can’t give my partner a special orgasm – like a birthday BJ, an “I love you just because hand job” or similar. And I hope he would do the same for me. But when it comes to “normal, every day sex” (what is normal, anyway?) then we both should get the O.
Spanking. I like the idea of it, but handling it is another issue. I like thinking about, fantasizing about it. I like to think I can handle it. but then I experience it – and the flashes of pain are so hard, I try to run from them. I beg them not to continue or return. So far I’ve really enjoyed being spanked by the riding crop we have. But open palm? It scares me and excites me equally.
Being told to wait. I don’t like to wait to cum; I don’t like to be told “later tonight.” And yet, the anticipation of waiting is so delicious and juicy it makes me almost squirm with excitement. It makes me wet, just thinking and waiting. In the end, the hate of waiting and the love to of waiting average out to be indifferent. Fine, tell me to wait. I’ll hate it and love it at the same time. You’ll have me conflicted for hours. And then we both will reap the rewards.
Not masturbating. Last week, a female coworker of mine complained of period cramps. I hinted there was a way to “take care of that.” She understood my meaning, but said she wouldn’t be seeing her BF for a couple of days. I then stated that she could always take care of it on her own, and she looked at me squeamish and said she’d pass. Whaaaat? What is wrong with women masturbating? I don’t understand it. If you don’t like to touch yourself or if you don’t even know how to do that, how to do you expect your partner to know what to do? And will you always rely on a partner for pleasure? Why so squeamish about your own body? PLAY WITH YOURSELF. PLEASE.
5. Tell us something with which you strongly disagree, or greatly dislike.
The non-separation of church & state with all these “man+woman=marriage” laws that are being passed in the USA today. These laws are entirely based on “traditional marriage” as seen by the conservative Christian-right. I come from this background, I know it very well. Perhaps that’s why it bugs me so very much. I don’t care what you personally believe or interpret in the Bible; that’s your set of beliefs. It’s open to interpretation in many ways. The big problem is that we’ve lost this separation of church and state… on one hand, we don’t want to state to tell us how to worship in any religion. We carefully guard that – but then we want to tell the state it should enforce our personal religious beliefs. It’s backward thinking, full of BS. Being from this background, it really irks me. I’ve had discussions with a variety of these conservatives – who have known me for years – and it shocks me they see the flawed logic and admit it, yet hold tight to it. I still profess as a Christian, and this type of legislation makes me want to hide in the ground and beg people to consider that not every “Christian” is like that.
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