Apr 272012
 

Q. How often do you masturbate?
I don’t masturbate very often but this wasn’t always the case. When I first discovered my clitoris and how much fun it was to play with (I think I was 12) I masturbated every day until I got to college at 17… I slept in the top bunk and any masturbation was audible from the creaking of the bunk bed, so I only got the option when she wasn’t in the room. That’s not so easy when your roommate sleeps 16 hours a day and flunks out due to sheer laziness. (Once I had my own room my senior year it was, of course, much easier and pursued much more often… aided with phone sex and porn and erotica.) But really, once I had a boyfriend it was easier to get my horny needs appeased through whatever physical activity we could manage at a college where dorms were same-sex only.

Fast forward to now, where my sex life is incredibly active, and I just don’t masturbate very often. It’s not that I don’t enjoy it – I do. I love to touch myself. I love to play with my clit. My favorite method of masturbation is to use just my right hand, my right middle finger especially. Its the best and most reliable way to ‘get off.’

But if I have a choice of playing with myself or having my boyfriend’s touch? I choose his touch. I cum better and harder than I do on my own. That’s mostly because I can’t tease myself like he does. He loves to torture my clit if he’s paying special attention to it via oral or a hand job. If we’re using my bullet vibe (my favorite way to clit orgasm) and he controls the vibration control and makes it last, and prolong beyond what I would ever do to myself. There are still times when I want nothing more than to just play with myself and just my fingers. Nothing feels like your skin on you, controlling you.

When I masturbate, I fantasize. Touching myself alone does not work. I have to imagine something happening to me. I have a few favorite scenarios that I will play and vary in my head. If I can’t concentrate on them, then I can’t and won’t cum. I need that fantasy in my mind or I can touch myself forever and not get off.

The boyfriend is a different answer. I am usually at work when we wakes up, and he normally wakes up horny, so he masturbates a several days a week. He masturbates on my side of the bed, or in front of his computer. Normally with his computer he’ll watch some form of porn – gay and shemale are his favorite. Sometimes he tells me about it, sometimes he doesn’t. I almost always assume he’s masturbated during the day…. I like it when he waits for me, but I’m never upset if he doesn’t.

And now, after thinking about this, I’m going to go play with myself…

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  One Response to “Formspring Friday: Masturbation”

  1. Thanks for the thoughtful, very well-thought-out answer! You certainly went above and beyond the call of duty in replying to our question. The thought of the scenarios that run through your head when you are masturbating is particularly enticing.

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