Q. When it comes to romantic involvement or sexual attraction/activity, do you have an upper or lower age limit?
Yes, I definitely do. I prefer an age range very close to my own. Younger I would only go a couple of years. Older I’d be OK up to 5. Any more than that and I feel that we’re too far apart and your viewpoints in life. I’ve been in three “relationships” and my first two were with men who were about 2 years older than me. My BF is a year younger than me.
Age is generally a number to me. I’ve always been more mature than my age and ahead of my peers in life, so going younger was never an option before the BF. I’ve never wanted to go up too far in age. It seemed weird or uncomfortable. If you look like you could be the older sibling of my partner, I start to distance. It’s just not for me.
Now, that is all addressed toward a relationship. If you’re talking just romantic involvement, like a potential future girlfriend for me, then the age limits increase in both directions by a few years.
I posed the same question to my BF, and his answer was exactly what I expected. He said as long as they’re 18 and legal or younger than 60, that’s all that matters to him. His range of sexual attraction is quite wide and varied.
Q. Other than on the lips, what is your favorite place to be kissed?
For me, my second favorite place to be kissed is on the side of my neck. Or the bottom of my feet. Both places turn me on very much with very little touch. Both are very intimate touches. My neck can be kissed during a hug or during sex… my feet are normally kissed while we are cuddling on the couch or in bed or having sex.
My BF’s answer is, simply, “on my penis.” Yeah, I could have predicted that.